Very similar issue here. I'm running the IOTA Light Wallet V2.4.0
It's been at least 4 days now. I transferred IOTA from my Bitfinix account into my wallet. Transaction details on Bitfinix end show completed however still zero balance in my wallet. I have "reattached the address" within the wallet several times and now have 3 confirmed and one pending which is all for the same transaction since I have tried reattaching them to fix the issue. I also have tried 3 different Nodes.
At this point I'm not sure if I have made the problem even worse. I'm not scared the tokens are missing but would like them to show up. Thank god I don't need to sell them. Any update or advice would be helpful. I'm a little confused as to deleting the wallet and re downloading it. At this point I don't want anything lost.
Lastly, I do run a VPN often, could this be causing issues for people?