I am currently facing the same isssue (as many others are). I withdrew a really sizeable amount of Giota, Bitfinex balance is at 0 now (after approval waiting time), and the Bundles are piling up (25 now as of this writing!) and none of them gets verified. All "pending". My (correct and newly created) Receive address remains at 0 balance... Yet the transactions is somewhere "outtathere". Well - I guess.
To me, this whole procedure is just plain stupid.
But correct me if I'm wrong.
For one, IOTA should be about speed. It's obviously NOT. From that I draw the conclusion this has been going 'live' way too soon. First one needs to get one's act together, only then go live with an actually functioning system.
So the transaction was sent onto the Tangle by Bitfinex. One of only two conclusions can then be drwan:
1) it's either the Tangle that is clogged up / nodes not functioning properly over and over again
2) or: I would only be able to receive funds while having a Wallet client open? (The latter would be totally nuts)
Also, what about us living our modern computer age? Of course, I will follow-through on Amir's experience/advice, so I will keep on REBROADCASTING and RE-ATTACHING the bundle (the first or the last in line? There's not even a Help on that, by the way. But above all: this involves bloody stupid manual labour - over and over again! - manual actiions that I should certainly NOT be doing in the first place. Even my Nokia 3310 from the old days seemed to be more advanced to me, than this...
Yes, you got it: all of this gets me a tad pissed.
In any case - if nothing would change, then IOTA won't make it until very loooooooooooooooooong from now.
So on I go, rebroadcasting and re-attaching (also taking ages) till I'm old , grey, and possibly be posessing some IOTA. Who knows. I'm not confident I will.